Comments on: That’s Not My Preference http://agrownupmarriage.com/thats-not-my-preference/ In marriage you either grow up or grow apart. It's your choice. Wed, 24 Apr 2013 15:59:47 +0000 hourly 1 By: Annie http://agrownupmarriage.com/thats-not-my-preference/#comment-36 Annie Tue, 31 May 2011 04:12:25 +0000 http://www.agrownupmarriage.com/?p=388#comment-36 So how does the mature, understanding undesired spouse remove the stabbing pain from her heart that comes from the knowledge that her husband doesn’t desire her? Sure I can be mature about it, and I can control the way I act, but how do I control the tears that spring to my eyes at the reminders that I am undesirable?

]]> By: Kentucky Colonel http://agrownupmarriage.com/thats-not-my-preference/#comment-35 Kentucky Colonel Mon, 30 May 2011 17:06:30 +0000 http://www.agrownupmarriage.com/?p=388#comment-35 You are welcome. It is my goal to avoid stereottypes.

]]> By: Kentucky Colonel http://agrownupmarriage.com/thats-not-my-preference/#comment-34 Kentucky Colonel Mon, 30 May 2011 17:01:55 +0000 http://www.agrownupmarriage.com/?p=388#comment-34 Paul,

That truly means a lot coming from someone for whom I have so much respect.

Blessings!

]]> By: Robin http://agrownupmarriage.com/thats-not-my-preference/#comment-33 Robin Sun, 29 May 2011 05:55:12 +0000 http://www.agrownupmarriage.com/?p=388#comment-33 THANK YOU for not assigning “husband” for the spouse that associates constant sexual desire with love or “wife” with the spouse that doesn’t connect the two.

]]> By: Paul Byerly http://agrownupmarriage.com/thats-not-my-preference/#comment-32 Paul Byerly Sun, 29 May 2011 02:49:39 +0000 http://www.agrownupmarriage.com/?p=388#comment-32 Great article (and I like your title a lot too). Glad to have another pro-marraige voice!

]]> By: Be a Good Egg | Daily Generous Wife Tips http://agrownupmarriage.com/thats-not-my-preference/#comment-31 Be a Good Egg | Daily Generous Wife Tips Sat, 28 May 2011 13:55:30 +0000 http://www.agrownupmarriage.com/?p=388#comment-31 [...] Grown Up Marriage: That’s Not My Preference Beautiful Womanhood: Sexual Abuse (nice resource) Couple Things: Rock the Boat Gina Parris: How to [...]

]]> By: Happy Hour | The Romantic Vineyard http://agrownupmarriage.com/thats-not-my-preference/#comment-30 Happy Hour | The Romantic Vineyard Fri, 27 May 2011 21:02:33 +0000 http://www.agrownupmarriage.com/?p=388#comment-30 [...] That’s Not My Preference – answers the age old question of who should go first in bringing about change in your marriage. [...]

]]> By: Tom and Debi Walter - The Romantic Vineyard http://agrownupmarriage.com/thats-not-my-preference/#comment-29 Tom and Debi Walter - The Romantic Vineyard Fri, 27 May 2011 20:26:49 +0000 http://www.agrownupmarriage.com/?p=388#comment-29 An excellent perspective. Having been involved with counseling troubled marriages – the ones who make the most progress are the ones who realize the only one they can change is themselves. It is the mature response to growing your marriage for God’s glory. It’s the biblical truth of removing the log in your own eye before going after the speck in your spouse’s.
http://theromanticvineyard.com

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